缘份 + 机会 + 珍惜 = 命运

< 缘份 + 机会 + 珍惜 = 命运 >

这是某早上赖床时突然跑出来的想法。是的，我喜欢早上赖床一阵子，想一些有的没的。有时真得有点浪费时间，不过我就是喜欢。

对于以上的观点，我是这么认为的，有人说命运是掌握在自己的手里的，我不完全同意这说法。在我还没到社会工作前，我真的很同意也觉得只要知道自己要什么，掌握一切就一定可以主宰自己的命运。但，不是什么事都会跟着自己想的发生的。我遇过一个朋友，她很勤劳，不埋怨，但是遇到的机遇往往都让她处于很不公平的状况。 我也有朋友，缘份到了，遇上了伯乐，却因觉得自己还不够好，而与机会一次又一次地擦肩而过。

所以我总觉得一个人的命运就是 “当缘份让我们遇到一个人或某件事，机会就会在此刻产生，这时我们的选择就只有把握或放弃罢了。” 只有缘份让机会产生，命运才会掌握在我们的手中。那当然，在我们还没遇上缘份时，我们必须做好充分的准备。

这怎么解释呢？必须每一部分分开解释的。

缘份

我相信缘份是上天安排的。就好像，为什么我会是我父母的女儿； 为什么网路会让两个人相遇，踏上爱情路； 为什么我会和不同背景的人一起读书。。。 这些为什么我们都无法解释。这是上天的安排，是缘份。

爱情，就因为缘份， 两个不同背景，不同性格，就像两条平行线的人，才会遇上。

亲情，就因为缘份， 不同性格，不同理念，有时打打闹闹，但总会互相扶持，互相依靠的家人， 才会遇上。

友情， 就因为缘份，不同背景，不同宗教，不同肤色，不同想法的一班人，才会遇上。


机会

机会对我来说就像每辆从我身边经过的巴士，只停顿一下就往前走了，下一辆也不知道几时才再来。 机会没有好的或坏的，因为遇到不同的事，成长就会有不同的体验。好的，就当作是奖赏，不好的，就当作是磨练自己。

爱情里，当你发现你遇上喜欢的人，碰巧她/他是你朋友的朋友，那就是机会，让你可以采取一些行动，认识她/他多一点。

亲情里，当家人有缘聚在一起，把自己在外面的面具脱下，想发泄就发泄，想哭就哭，不需要一点掩饰，这就是机会，让我们能在一起分享每一分每一秒的机会。

友情里，朋友可能是知己，也可能是某个时间陪伴我们的人。他们可能提供我们安慰或其他机会的人。朋友可以让我们成长，也可以让我们看得更多，让我们的视野更大也可能提供更多其他的机会给我们的人。


珍惜

珍惜又或者是把握。这环节，也有人会放弃。这掌握在我们的手中。有时人习惯了所拥有的，往往都会选择放弃。不是说每一次都一定要珍惜所拥有的机会，如果那不是你想要的，握住了指会累了自己。当然，如果真的是自己想要的，再多辛苦只要是自己能力范围内的都要掌握住，因为成功与否已经不重要了，重要的是自己没有后悔。

爱情里， 如果在对的时间遇上对的人，珍惜吧！你会得到幸福的。如果遇上不对的人，那就放手吧， 别累了自己，也累了别人。

亲情里，无论发生什么事， 家人是最能够包容的。珍惜与他们相处的每一分每一秒。珍惜他们为我们做过的每一件事，也学习包容。

友情里，在人生不同的里程碑会遇上不同的朋友。 珍惜每一个朋友，他们可能只是和你擦肩而过。有谁知道，那一天，当你需要帮忙时，他们就在那里。保持联络，这是珍惜友情的最基本要点。


以上观点纯属小妹一般见识的想法。命运这回事不是说，命好，就什么都顺顺利利的；也不能说命不好，就一世人堕落。最重要的还是自己的思想，处于低潮时，不要太悲观，当作是磨练，冲过这关，一切都会有希望的。处于高峰时，不能太自傲，谦虚才会让自己过的开心逍遥。

Rocketeer

The song I'm introducing is Rocketeer. Yes, Rocketeer from Clara Chung, a Korean-American artist. My friend introduce her another song to me, I'll introduce that song later. Let's talk about her first. I like her voice, wish to have her vocal. (hahahaha.. should sleep earlier tonight and dream of it). It might be her vocal or the simple background supporting melody, makes me fall in love with this song. I can easily fall in love with a song just because of the vocal, melody or lyrics. This song is originated by Far East Movement feat Ryan Tedder. It's a totally different feeling and mood. However I still like Clara's version. For your information, Clara's version has a shorter lyrics. To me it's a touching song, you can easily get it from the lyrics.

It might be what I was facing since long time ago, I think it's time that I should take a break. I really like when she sings "Here we go, come with me; There's a world out there that we should see." I seriously hope that someone can grab my hand and bring me out from my fear of changing. It has been a while that I kept on reading books and watching motivational talk videos to boost up my courage of stepping out from a comfort zone, which I have built for so long. Yes. This song is nice and it tells me that I must do something to get out of my comfort zone. I'm not sure where I should head for, but I must do the change. This is a promise to myself, and I mustn't break my own promise. OOOOSHHHHH!

Let's fly with this song~ fly to the moon, fly to the space~ when you are floating, there won't be any worries and stress. And you'll see a whole new world out there~

Extract from : http://www.youtube.com/user/ClaraCMusic#p/c/3BABDE50024EC8B5/3/dStdUl5m6iI

Lyrics: Rocketeer / Far East Movement

(feat. Ryan Tedder)

Here we go, come with me
There's a world out there that we should see
Take my hand, close your eyes
With you right here, I'm a rocketeer

Let's fly (fly,fly,fly,fly)
Up, up here we go, go
Up, up here we go, go
Let's fly (fly,fly,fly,fly)
Up, up here we go, go
Where we stop nobody knows

Where we go, we don't need roads
And where we stop nobody knows
To the stars if you really want it
Got a jetpack with your name on it
Above the clouds and the atmosphere
Say the words and we outta here
Hold my hand if you feelin scared
We're flyin up, up outta here

Here we go, come with me
There's a world out there that we should see
Take my hand, close your eyes
With you right here, I'm a rocketeer

Let's fly (fly,fly,fly,fly)
Up, up here we go, go
Up, up here we go, go
Let's fly (fly,fly,fly,fly)
Up, up here we go, go
Where we stop nobody knows

Baby, we can stay fly like a G6
Shop the streets of Tokyo, get your fly kicks
Girl, your always on my mind
Got my head up in the sky
And I'm never lookin down, feelin priceless
Yeah, where we at? only few have known
Were on some next level, super mario
I hope this works out, cardio
Until then let's fly
Geronimo

Here we go, come with me
There's a world out there that we should see
Take me hand, close your eyes
With you right here, I'm a rocketeer
Let's fly

Yo, now I ain't ever been to space before
But I ain't never seen a face like yours
You make me feel like I can touch the planets
You are the moon girl, watch me grab it
See, I ain't ever seen a star this close
You got me stuck by the way you glow
I'm like oh, oh, oh, oh
I'm like oh, oh, oh, oh

Here we go, come with me
There's a world out there that we should see
Take my hand, close your eyes
With you right here, I'm a rocketeer

Let's fly (fly,fly,fly,fly)
Up, up here we go, go
Up, up here we go, go
Let's fly (fly,fly,fly,fly)
Up, up here we go, go
Where we stop nobody knows